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Re: should i have had an abortion? |
fraggler
Date:
2008-11-17
Time: 20:35:22
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do not have an abortion...
i had the same choice and i said no...
my eldest is now 17 and is a great young man,
my daughter is lovely, and my youngest is all
i could want....
i was 17 when i became a dad and i wouldnt
have it any other way....
i know i was young, but i amde it good even
though it was hard....  |
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Re: should i have had an abortion? |
just_chi
Date:
2008-11-17
Time: 22:58:50
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EXCUSE ME FOR HAVING 'NO LIFE' AND READING TO
MANY THREADS HERE, BUT AREN'T YOU THE SAME
GAL WHO YESTERDAY OR THE DAY BEFORE SAID YOU
COULDN'T GET AND KEEP A MAN?? |
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Re: should i have had an abortion? |
sonya87
Date:
2008-11-17
Time: 23:10:47
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Yes of course you made the right choice, be
proud of yourself and try your best to
provide you and your little baby a good life.
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Re: should i have had an abortion? |
lil_red_gem
Date:
2008-11-18
Time: 08:13:37
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Like she said - it's too late now, so what's
the point of thinking about if's, but's and
maybe's?
You made a decision and it's something that
you can't go back on, so you just have to get
on with and make the best of a bad job.
But i will say, at your 6 week check-up, make
sure that you sort out contraception.
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Re: should i have had an abortion? |
tammy2007
Date:
2008-11-19
Time: 19:41:42
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this thread shudnt even have got started shes
asking total strangers weather she did the
right thing keeping her baby like, it was no
biggy, dilemas like his need 2 be discussed
with train councillors not broadcast on a
chatroom ffs some ppl,,,,,,,, and just 4 the
record smoking while preg,,,,,totally wrong
same goes 4 drinking |
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Re: should i have had an abortion? |
amayesn
Date:
2008-12-03
Time: 19:50:06
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abortion should never be an option (why
should an innocent baby suffer for your poor
choice) adoption is the best choice when you
dont want the child you are carring |
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Re: should i have had an abortion? |
louise1873
Date:
2009-06-18
Time: 21:13:53
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Hey....i'm in the exactly same boat as you!
I am 19 i already have a son on 18 months and
i have just found out i am preagnant again i
beleive i am around 6 weeks pregnant...i'm am
so stuck with what to do!!! I dont know if it
would be the best to keep it or not and i
know my boyfriend is keen not to keep it!!
Can u tell me how u are feeling and wither u
think it was the right choice to keep it and
what made you want to keep it? thanks louise
x |
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Re: should i have had an abortion? |
gipsy_mig
Date:
2009-06-18
Time: 21:19:24
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All that gets me about this is as someone
eles has already said
why come into to a place like this and ask
such a question?.......
you know your going to start the sparks
flying
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Re: should i have had an abortion? |
gipsy_mig
Date:
2009-06-18
Time: 21:37:26
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I know when I was her age I did not think I
could tell my mother
was weeks before I phoned her
was so worried what she would say
my then boyfriend (NOW HUBBY) made me phone
her
she was over the moon was so happy at being a
young granny LOL |
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Re: should i have had an abortion? |
linkinp
Date:
2009-06-20
Time: 21:53:06
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Well at the end of the day its upto u BUT
there are ways to stop you from getting
pregnant in the first place,, too many people
nowadays use abortion as some sort of get
out... I am no way a prude or a snob i have 2
sons, im 33 yrs old and had my first son at
17 yrs, you have to do what you think is best
im not against abortions but im no for them
either.. There are people who would love a
baby and for some reason cant have them and
get pregnant, it must be tough for ya but
like i said there are ways to stop getting
pregnant nowadays. |
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Re: should i have had an abortion? |
louise1873
Date:
2009-07-05
Time: 00:31:12
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I'll tellyou something right now i am no
silly wee teenager i have always been mature
for my age because i have had to be!!!!!!
SECOND of all i am no slag and do no open my
legs to anyone!!!!! I have been with the same
person for 4 years the same person i have had
my first child too!!! I asked advice on the
situation!!! Not u calling people what you
think are silly wee [censored]s and daft
teenagers!!!! HA and to be honest i am
proberly a better mum/dad to my child or
children to be than you will ever be infact
you probs dont even have kids!!!!! So if you
dont like me goin of the subject about
you!!!! Dont do it to other people!!!
SORTED!!!!! |
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Re: should i have had an abortion? |
lil_red_gem
Date:
2009-07-05
Time: 07:35:10
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What's done is done.
If you are unsure of what to do, talk to a
counsellor about your indecision - someone
who specialises in this kind of thing.
As i understand it, a lot of people suffer
serious guilt for a long time after
abortion.
I have 4 children myself, and just know that
i would carry the guilt for the rest of my
life, if i decided to abort any one of them -
but that's just me.
Would a brother or sister be so bad for your
little one?
And if it's about impractibilities - if we
all waited for the right time, most of us
would never have children!
Abortion is a personal choice.
And you shouldn't feel judged if you decide
to go ahead with it.
But just make sure that it really is what you
want to do - no pregnancy can ever be
replaced.
Good luck in your decision.
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Re: should i have had an abortion? |
msopal
Date:
2009-07-05
Time: 08:18:36
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Hon you made the decision not to get rid of
the baby and you doubt yourself......but
sweetie the bigger question is could you have
lived with yourself if you had done it ....
You already have a child now so you know what
you would be giving up....
Have faith in the decision you made and best
of luck xx |
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