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Re: Rejection? |
zogzog
Date:
2008-05-14
Time: 11:29:27
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I was also hoping for some witty ideas?
Like, erm, I dont kow ,er m maybe, getting a
list of all the people you have been rejected
by on your back (is that witty or just weird?
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Re: Rejection? |
bigharry
Date:
2008-05-14
Time: 12:21:00
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I get rejected all the time you get immune to
it like anything that hapeens once to many
times. Now I get worried by acceptance not
that it will happen
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Re: Rejection? |
Latrece
Date:
2008-05-14
Time: 13:05:39
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Follow her around and then call her the each
evening to tell her everything she did that
day...
That'll be a restraining order waiting to
happen. |
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Re: Rejection? |
bigharry
Date:
2008-05-14
Time: 13:32:07
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Great that means I still have time to keep
both eyes firmly on you my passion flower.
BIRD watching is a FAVOURITE passtime for me
in summer.
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Re: Rejection? |
Latrece
Date:
2008-05-14
Time: 13:47:34
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"remember folks, no means maybe"
loco, I just saw that. Funny.
harry,
zog, you could try the classics: putting
sugar in their gas tank, keying their car, or
spray painting grafetti on their front door.
Or for a less bitter approach, you could just
send them your toenail clippings each week.
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Re: Rejection? |
bigharry
Date:
2008-05-14
Time: 13:52:44
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zogzog are you trying to reject or asking
what to do when rejected.
trying to reject :- RUN AND HIDE usually
works
being rejected :- Accept there is some one
better out there and move on
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Re: Rejection? |
Latrece
Date:
2008-05-14
Time: 13:59:52
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harry, he's joking. He wants use to give joke
answers.
He's just having a little trouble
communicating today (which is not so unusual
for a man of his "mature" years)
He just needs a little nap and he'll be good
as new. |
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Re: Rejection? |
dianney
Date:
2008-05-14
Time: 16:05:25
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^Might work zog. Then mail it to her or
something. You're bound to move on because of
your embarrassment.
Try turning to your real friends -- FOOD.
Food will instantly make you feel better,
comfort you, will not scream at you, nag you,
nor resist when you bite it. Soon you'll
be feeling the power of having the upper hand
again. |
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Re: Rejection? |
zogzog
Date:
2008-05-14
Time: 16:10:14
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Good point Dianney
Embarressment can be a great teacher!
Food is a good substitute too, but to be
honest, if anything I have less of an
appitite and even "treats" have lost their
appeal.
Zog looks around for a razor |
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Re: Rejection? |
lil_red_gem
Date:
2008-05-14
Time: 16:14:21
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Tell yourself that you were too good anyway,
and that it's the other persons loss, and
that they are so superficial that you
couldn't condescend to bring yourself to
their level...and spend your evenings
dreaming of Anjelina (or whoever floats your
boat) telling yourself that if she saw you
before she saw Brad... you get the pic lol |
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Re: Rejection? |
Latrece
Date:
2008-05-15
Time: 00:08:11
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zog, your value doesn't change whether
someone accepts or rejects you.
You are just as valuable as you were before
you met them.
People do hurtful things but they can't
determine who we are. |
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Re: Rejection? |
denisejo
Date:
2008-05-15
Time: 00:11:31
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Try your best to move on. I gave a bloke 6 of
the best years of my life only to be cast
aside. its hard but gather some good friends
move on n party party party till u can party
no more then sleep some n party party party
some more
its the only way
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Re: Rejection? |
matze66
Date:
2008-05-15
Time: 00:17:36
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Come on over to my place hey girl were
having a party we'll be singing dancing and
singing baby come on over tonight..ye ye
yehhh.
i'll leave you my number..wait its in my
little red book....music plays...
dad a da daa
Everybody...
Coz
Your more than a number iin my little red
book your more than a one night
stand...(unless you say otherwise) |
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Re: Rejection? |
zogzog
Date:
2008-05-19
Time: 10:22:30
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People do do hurtful things, but not all
rejection is intended to be hurtful; it just
is. It seems to be in our nature to feel hurt
be rejection- no matter what the motivation
for teh rejection is. |
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Re: Rejection? |
tinzel501
Date:
2008-05-19
Time: 10:28:16
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it takes alot to open up and come clean about
how you feel to someone but the risk is you
may be rejected but at least you know where
you stand and now you can move on...... |
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Re: Rejection? |
the_gate_keeper
Date:
2008-05-19
Time: 10:37:23
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somehow I'm not devastated
( but will try later she wants it bad ) ...
which would prove my theory ....
being subjected to such fears will breed
contempt for them......
so in summary instead of closing up, face it
, and you maybe not the first time but you
will learn to deal with situations....
instead of being a nancy gaylord
and what makes us go back to such
environments.... NEEDS , DESIRE, And
WANTS....
some times they just won't die...
so it's better to fight someone else than
yourself
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Re: Rejection? |
the_gate_keeper
Date:
2008-05-19
Time: 11:00:07
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course it's to with facing it.....
one must understand why..... weight up the
reasons
of the decision ....ie: the rejection
and then if you still desire , want or need
the said shiny thing , be it a environment,
image or material good....
you work on your floors and are shaped by the
fore gone rejection .....
in order to appease it's demands.....
along the way , you obtain knowledge , which
self confidence in said area's and also used
in other........
it's all win win baby |
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Re: Rejection? |
zogzog
Date:
2008-05-19
Time: 11:04:01
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I guess thats one way of looking at it and
certainly a positive outcome beats self
induced misery, still, its all fait acomply
(sp) in it? |
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Re: Rejection? |
the_gate_keeper
Date:
2008-05-19
Time: 11:07:54
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very true ZOG....
many things ....
are like looking into a diamond .....
you can stand on different sides and see a
dofferent object....
but the object is still the same....
if you know what i mean......
I would see rejection as information ....
some see it as ... failure or unworthy...
it is the same....
i would still feel unworthy or failure... but
it's your desire or want or need that pushes
you forward...
man must over come....
it is evolution at it finest
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Re: Rejection? |
zogzog
Date:
2008-05-19
Time: 11:08:50
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Thats the purpose of this thread Farc- to
discuss the best ways of dealing with it.
Anyone can say "deal with it"- but thats just
a hollow phrase- give me detail! |
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Re: Rejection? |
the_gate_keeper
Date:
2008-05-19
Time: 11:15:59
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there are many different levels and qualities
to such an equation ZOG....
each providing a different out come or image
of the event ....
many would claim there route and level of
appeasement to be successful....
but only the prize can claim that.......
so one could say , it' the beginning ie: want
desire , or need that is the indicator ..
weather attempts and goal after rejection are
successful... when some level of appeasement
of the want is obtained and weather the
prize of emotional distress was worth it...
do you understand that.....
i do , but in my head ,and sometimes it's
hard to explain to a popular audience
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Re: Rejection? |
zogzog
Date:
2008-05-19
Time: 11:20:34
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I think I get where your leading too. All of
life is a lesson and emotional responce such
as pain and anger are simply natures ways of
teaching us a lesson that we may or may not
grasp. There is very little in life that
happens to us that we can't understand-
(however, whether our explanations are
correct is another matter entirely) |
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Re: Rejection? |
mads_back
Date:
2008-05-19
Time: 11:23:43
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wait until they go on holiday and post a load
of maggots and some rotten meat through their
door!
or did you want a more philosophical answer? |
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Re: Rejection? |
the_gate_keeper
Date:
2008-05-19
Time: 11:47:07
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ok ZOG....
add little paranoia.... or vainess as i like
to call it....
but one could be forgiven as answers are
forged from seeing such DEEP posts...
look at ....
facuplosers
and
mads_back
posts under my last post.....
that has rejection in them .... and i have
picked up on that as they have highlighted
and rejected the deepness , which i was
guilty of prior to there posts ....
they both , bring the point up of saying
about the deepness or philosophica...nature
of the thread
and current answers...
and by the rest of the words.... are
rejecting to par-take in such deepness...
which makes me question myself...to be more
inkeeping with the group as a whole....again
vainess can be found there
for what ever reasons.... which is fine and a
personal choice
because of this rejection .... i would feel
out of the loop a bit , a natural rejection
...
all be it an environment one ( hope you
understand that....it's hard for me to
eXplain all of it )
as no doubt some of my above posts .... were
meant to WOW and maybe although not defining
in my mind VAIN...
the most defining , is the progressive nature
of the said topic... and prizes for me...
is understanding......
NOW..... if i was feeling extremely vain and
my purpose was to soley impress , i would
have taken that rejection to heart as i would
be more perceptible to it....
and my want need , and desire wouldn't shield
from that if it was vainess.... or big
headiness
as rejection is the opposite of the said
emotions
again hard to write on paper...
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