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Me prejudiced? One of my best
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ruton
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 02:07:11
with all the anti-muslim feeling here, i just
wanted to know how many muslims you know from
real life and what you think of them as
people?

are they all brainwashed taliban/osama
wannabes or do they come over as normal
decent people to you?

this question is mainly for non-muslim
brits.

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Re: Me prejudiced? One of my best
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the_gate_keeper
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 02:43:15
i would have to poke them with a stick
first......





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Re: Me prejudiced? One of my best
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elephant_in_the_room
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 09:03:13
the heading of this thread is misleading, as
we all know a Muslim cannot have a non-muslim
as a best friend , or even a real friend.
This is because in the HOLY KORAN ALLAH warns
not be be pals with jews and christians
5:51
take not jews and christians as pals, they
scratch each others backs and if you your
pals with them you become one of them as
Allah guides you from just people"(
elephant-in -the -room . translation
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Re: Me prejudiced? One of my best
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elephant_in_the_room
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 09:10:19
Ruton has can you not be predjudiced against
a whole group of people who keep the wars of
the world going.
If muslims stopped fighting everyone then all
the armies of the o world could stand down
AND ALL INJUSTICES NEGOTIATED AROUND A TABLE
but oh no the koran tells you to fight and we
HAVE A GOD GIVE RIGHT TO FIGHT .."oh my
weapon I long to clutch thee"
is not about sex

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Re: Me prejudiced? One of my best
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jaymb
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 09:18:03
having lived in an islamic country and worked
closely in the UK with islamic faith people i
can say that some are like you and i and some
are more radical in their thoughts just like
the rest of any society. Of course we all
have our own prejudice but it's when we allow
it to effect/affect the way we treat other
that it is evil. What i feel is that you
should not expect people to think as you do
(and that's ok), but because we do not think
the same does this make us enemies????
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Re: Me prejudiced? One of my best
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suze
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 10:09:29
i have a few muslim acquanitances and find
them nice ppl

but always have this feeling that if they had
to make choices about where their loyalties
lie, they would choose islam over their
english nationality

we hear about "disaffected muslim youth" and
hear all the excuses about their reversion to
islam, but as many are now second and third
generation english they should have embraced
our culture and our laws and our ways, which
do not conflict with their or anyone elses
religious beliefs
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just_den
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 12:46:04
i know countless muslims, some of them are
truly awful people, some of them are among
the nicest people i have ever met...

i know countless christians too, some are
truly awful people, some are among the nicest
people i know...

to judge 1.2 billion people purely on their
religion is just plain silly to me..

the koran says to kill the none believer,
this is true, the bible says to torture the
none believer for 3 months before killing
them...... same [censored], different
language...
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suze
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 12:56:08
excellent observation on all counts, den

i wish i was a logical thinker like u

as u point out...

same sh!t, different book!!

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just_den
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 13:00:03
thank you darlin', but you do have such a
clarity of thinking..... you just need to
read what you write, you'd feel so smug about
yourself...

the phrase "and brains too" comes to mind...
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elephant_in_the_room
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 13:18:08
yeah but just den
that killing and nasty stuff was stopped by
the new testament
.does his keepo thing <cringe>

Matthew 5:44 "But I say to you, love your
enemies and pray for those who persecute
you,

and a prayer that is from the bible
"Go forth into the world in peace,
be of good courage,
hold fast that which is good,
render to no man evil for evil,
strengthen the faint-hearted,
support the weak,
help the afflicted,
honour all men.
love and serve the Lord God with all thy
heart and love thy neighbour as yourself
and
have a good pint when neeeded
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just_den
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 13:30:15
i take your point elephant, but by not
banishing and condemning the old testament it
could give christian radicals a war cry,
they're "acting on the first words of god"
and not the diluted new testament...
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just_den
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 13:31:07
thank you charly...
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suze
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 13:36:39
you said some nice things there den, so thanx


i can see why everyone loves u
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just_den
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 13:37:20
i'll get big headed....

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just_den
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 13:43:43
^^^ as ever. knowledgeable and informed
pat...
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just_den
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 13:48:21
damn.... i've been eating bran flakes all
these years.....


i thought i was doing well getting the free
plastic disk spinner...
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just_den
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 13:51:50
you should have seen the albert einstein
thread sparle...
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Re: Me prejudiced? One of my best
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suze
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 14:19:05
ive just realised why im an intellectual
lightweight without a plastic disc spinner, i
been eatin shreddies all these years
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Re: Me prejudiced? One of my best
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ruton
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 15:55:50
this thread went better than i thought - it's
good to hear that most people can step back
from their preconceived notions and relate to
each other as normal human beings.

wow, a positive message from this section -
hooray.
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just_den
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 15:59:43
its the only way to look at it to me ruton,
we're people first, anything else follows...
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ruton
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 16:26:00
some people define themselves by their
religion first but if people agree with the
spirit of your words then there will be less
room for fear and prejudice.

everybody wins.
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littlemisssunshine
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 16:32:53
"The spirit of the words" means the true
essence words provide, the true intention and
meaning that others can connect with.
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littlemisssunshine
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 16:34:48
I suppose it means understanding the words
beyond the fact that they are from a
religion, understanding them for the message
they try to give, not the actual words you
read.
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ruton
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 16:40:32
"we're people first, anything else follows"

some might take that to literally mean that
religion is secondary/irrelevant and not the
core basis of a person.

but i'd take the spirit of the words to mean
that people can recognise and treat each
other as human beings whatever their beliefs
may be.

it's just a small difference in wordng to
avoid misunderstanding.
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littlemisssunshine
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 16:40:57
I agree Sparkle.

I think that if people observe religion they
will find there is more to religion than
preaching and a specific belief. In all
religious stories in any religion, behind the
idea of the word of their Gods there are
morals being taught discreetly. A kind of
moral or message that everyone eventually
learns in life from their experiences and
that everyone can relate to whether they
believe in religion or not. Some people don't
observe, others over observe to the point
that they are obsessed with their God but
forget the true words...
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jaymb
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 16:42:29
define yourself as human first -religion is
part of your culture. if i were born to
islamic parents in an islamic country guess
what i'd be islamic but i was born to western
parents and in the west and guess what that
is what i am - and that's what i want to be.
I have aproblem when i am told i am wrong
because i do not think like others - brings
back history lesson!!!!!
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littlemisssunshine
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 16:42:29
Rutons message above shows my point. Spot on
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suze
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 16:42:32
sparky and jaz u are too deep for me but
while we talk rationally and listen to each
other, we will all win

by the way jaz u always have fabulous pix on
your prof
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littlemisssunshine
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 16:43:55
Aww thanks Suze.
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angel_of_darkness666
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 16:56:27
The only thing that I find, that is abnormal,
are those who choose to immerse themselves in
religious and or media propaganda. Using the
latter as a means to drive a wedge between
those of us who, choose to 'get along'.

I have many friends who are of Muslim
following, yet, they know that I do not have
a following as such. That has not stopped our
friendship. Nor should it.

We, (as in my Muslim friends) are of the
thought, that we have all walked the face of
this Earth long enough, to know that we are
Human Beings. And, it should not matter to
anyone what our followings are, or what color
our skin may be. We should not listen to the
likes of those, who say we should kill each
other, simply because of the latter
mentioned.

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littlemisssunshine
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 16:59:21
I agree Undertaker. Religion and other such
things in life should not result in division
and cannot change the way in which everyone
is connected.
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angel_of_darkness666
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 17:06:18
Thankyou, littlemisssunshine(think I spelled
that right)...

It is not just color or followings. There are
indeed other things, that some will try to
make a devide.

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Re: Me prejudiced? One of my best
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loonylulu007
Date: 2008-05-11
Time: 23:26:09
Why the Question?
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Re: Me prejudiced? One of my best
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ruton
Date: 2008-05-12
Time: 19:32:27
it's explained in the first post...
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ruton
Date: 2008-05-12
Time: 23:20:41
yup, most of time connected in mutual hatred
of each other but once in a while the red
haze clears... temporarily anyway.
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mightywurlitzer
Date: 2008-05-13
Time: 07:05:40
what I like about Islam is the total WALL you
come up against.
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mightywurlitzer
Date: 2008-05-13
Time: 07:06:55
Islamic minds go THUD end of argument
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kateenglund
Date: 2008-05-13
Time: 07:33:26
whats normal anyway ? one person could belive
that a dog is a god and anouther could belive
that a cow is a god thats normal to them but
it seems strange to others everyone is
diffrent at the end of the day if we where
all the same like religon wants us to be it
would be a pretty boring place to live
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mightywurlitzer
Date: 2008-05-13
Time: 12:12:06
the diff is that the cow worshippers and dog
worshippers etc. just live their lives
peacfully and dont want to conquer the world
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mightywurlitzer
Date: 2008-05-13
Time: 12:13:19
but I just wish the dog worshippers always
cleared up after their Gods
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Re: Me prejudiced? One of my best
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ruton
Date: 2008-05-13
Time: 18:07:55
not sure what took you so long to invade this
thread but now you're here, do know any
muslims personally and if so what's your
opinion of them?

it would be interesting to know if you
demonise individuals like you demonise whole
groups.
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mightywurlitzer
Date: 2008-05-13
Time: 20:11:43
ruton if I accpet Dog worshippers I am very
likely to be tolerant
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