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keepopenminded
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 21:54:09
Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said :

1- "A strong person is not the person who
throws his adversaries to the ground. A
strong person is the person who contains
himself when he is angry."


2- "When one of you becomes angry while
standing he should sit down. If the anger
leaves him, well and good; otherwise he
should lie down."


3- A man sought advice from the prophet
Mohammed (PBUH). The prophet (PBUH) said to
him “Don’t be angry”, the man repeatedly
sought for more advice and the prophet (PBUH)
repeated, “Don’t be angry”


Scientifically and medically:

Now, it is scientifically and medically
proved that anger as a form of human reaction
affects human heart. It increases the rate of
heart beating to an abnormal or unnatural
state and consequently increases the blood
pushed in the blood vessels and increases the
probability of blood pressure and heart
attack. It is well known that physical
efforts such as running or working a
physically hard work increases the heart
beating. But in such cases the heart beating
is accompanied by physical exertion and toil
therefore there is a balance between the
heart exertion and physical to it. It
improves the healthy of both the heart and
the body. But in the case of anger it is only
the heart which experience tense in addition
to the harmonic and inner changes which
affect the angry, more blood gets pumped into
the body whose blood vessels are not ready
and wide to receive the pushed blood and
consequently, creates blood pressure and
heart attack.
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Re: Anger
 
dunc4
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 21:58:45
thanks,i'll try and remember to lie down the
next time i'm cursing
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Re: Anger
 
socrates
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 22:12:30
Perhaps your prophet should have listened to
his own advice before the Battle of Badr - I
wonder why he chose St.Patricks Day to
attack? Maybe he was a good Catholic after
all.
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Re: Anger
 
dunc4
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 22:19:29
Hmm! n'ough said
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Re: Anger
 
x_sunflower_x
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 22:21:00
its got nothing to do with religion, u can
urself make urself calm or not, in my case i
choose not to but wud be able to if i wanted
but never wish 2..........
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Re: Anger
 
x_sunflower_x
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 22:26:12
jolly was u niagrafalls?
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Re: Anger
 
socrates
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 22:28:23
Suppose you have to feel sorry for a man who
cannot respond to a question, without
consulting his scriptures - sad really.
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Re: Anger
 
x_sunflower_x
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 22:28:28
no reason........... was just askin, i
thought maybe u were.....
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Re: Anger
 
keepopenminded
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 22:28:57
Dear dunc..

If the patient was standing he is asked to
lie-down and gets chances of meditation and
tranquility..

This method of treatment is adopted by the
modern psychotherapy.
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Re: Anger
 
x_sunflower_x
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 22:30:48
kom, that means nothin u can sit down and
take deep breaths, its not hard to calm
oneself down......
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Re: Anger
 
keepopenminded
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 22:41:43
socrates, maybe you was begotten scholar as
it seem to me.. to say that i have to read
before answer..

surely i'll do, because i'm always seeking
for knowledge..

the ignorance is to say i'm scholar..
proverb.

Peace..
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Re: Anger
 
x_sunflower_x
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 22:43:39
knowledge is good........

wish i cud gain sum, am thick as puddin, lol
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Re: Anger
 
keepopenminded
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 22:46:35
thanks alot jollyman..
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Re: Anger
 
socrates
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 22:49:16
That's my point - you only have one source.
Why do you evade questions? Pontificating
selective smug suras from a blood-thirsty
book isn't debate. Where are you from? Why
do you hide in anonymity? Everone here at
least gives an indication of their origins.
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Re: Anger
 
keepopenminded
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 22:52:15
you got knowledge x_sunflower_x as long as
you share your ideas with others with
respect..

i appreciate the way you answer..

hoping to read some new threads from you

thanks x_sunflower_x..
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Re: Anger
 
x_sunflower_x
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 22:55:14
well thank u

u remind me of sum1
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Re: Anger
 
keepopenminded
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 22:59:02
i think it doesn't matter to know where i'm
from as we are here just to discuss not to
visit me at home .. while i didn't ask you
where are you from..

anyway, if you want visit me, you're welcome
socrates..
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Re: Anger
 
fsm
Status: Admin
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:01:34
What do I do if I'm laying down and get
angry.
Did mohammed only get angry when he was
standing up??
There was an article in readers digest
sometime ago that was quite good.
What does the Bible say about Anger?hmmm
It's ok I'm rambling
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Re: Anger
 
x_sunflower_x
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:03:10
have u read the bible to say what it actually
says about anger?
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Re: Anger
 
x_sunflower_x
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:05:43
jolly u've already read it so should
know.........
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Re: Anger
 
x_sunflower_x
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:09:10
i thought it was tha and the till i brought
it a few mnths back and its not, very boring
all the same also the odd interesting bit,
lol
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Re: Anger
 
keepopenminded
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:10:30
as i'm a muslim and told you what islam says
about anger..

i think it's christians's turn to tell us
what the bible says about anger and especialy
our scholar : sochrates..

your turn sochrates..
we listening to you..
go ahead..
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Re: Anger
 
x_sunflower_x
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:13:10
all i've read so far is bout adam and eve
(was ok), Noah (was ok) aload of repetative
stuff, gays being stoned, if u had sex with
ya inlaws etc u were killed........
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Re: Anger
 
thefridayman
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:13:21

Prophet Muhammad, who is is this god who
sits on is as and looks back watches his
servants blow them selfs up next to
baby's.that makes me angry.
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Re: Anger
 
x_sunflower_x
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:15:17
well hello he man, i'm she ra princess of
power.......
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Re: Anger
 
socrates
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:15:29
Keepopen - you don't fool anyone hiding your
insecurity and lack of debating skills behind
strained smug 'humorous' remarks.
Well everyone - I give up with the Quranic
'vending machine' you won't get answers from
a Robot - So I'll stick with Nietszche - GOD
ID DEAD!
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Re: Anger
 
socrates
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:16:29
Sorry! GOD IS DEAD!
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Re: Anger
 
x_sunflower_x
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:17:01
lol@^^^^^^^^^^^
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Re: Anger
 
keepopenminded
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:28:23
Jollyman, you mean this ?:

Koran:
37. And those who eschew the more grievous
sins and indecencies, and, when they are
wroth, they forgive,
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Re: Anger
 
red9t9
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:30:40
I noticed they all lay down when the danish
cartoon caper came out and the teddy bear
called...er what was he called again?
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Re: Anger
 
socrates
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:39:08
Muhammad! The man who hacked his way through
around 60 battles - no wonder he had to lie
down afterwards. You can actually go see his
sword in the Topkapi Museum in Istanbul - it
was 'booty' from another battle I believe.
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Re: Anger
 
keepopenminded
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:42:07
This does not means that a Muslim should not
be angry at all, no, but it means he should
not be excessively angry.

A Muslim should be angry when if there
aggression against his religion, his holy
sister, his fellow-Muslim brothers.

A Muslim should be angry if there is a
violation of the teaching of Islam but he
should repeat the aggression with an equal
aggression. He should not be an aggressor.

In case of anger which results from personal
conflicts, the prophet Mohammed (PBUH)
advises the angry to remain silent.

Because if angry man evaluates the reaction
which he has not accept it. Therefore the
prophet advised the angry man to restrain
himself and remain silent.

The prophet also says that angry man should
solve a problem between two persons.

Quran also portrayed anger as a satanic power
which conquers man and pushes him to commit
deeds which he would have not committed if he
were in a normal state of affairs.

The prophet Moses dropped the wood boards
which contain the holy words of Allah and
caught the head of his brother and dragged it
towards him. This was because he was angry
due to the violation of the teachings of
Allah made by his followers in the absence of
Moses. When anger disappeared and Moses
restored his normal mood he picked-up the
wood boards.

This shows the effect of anger which made
self-control and self-restrain which is
accompanied with a deep faith in Allah.
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Re: Anger
 
red9t9
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:49:54
Quote:
A Muslim should be angry if there is a
violation of the teaching of Islam but he
should repeat the aggression with an equal
aggression. He should not be the aggressor.

So the danish cartoon caper was met with
equal aggression? how many people were killed
because of it?
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Re: Anger
 
socrates
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:52:34
No Keep - That's just poetic nonesense - My
explanation is simpler - Anger = a primeval
response to a percieved threat. However, due
to perverse human intelligence, this
Darwinian trait has evolved into an attribute
which employs more sophisticated methods of
display other than violence. QED. It has SOD
ALL TO DO WITH ALLAH!
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Re: Anger
 
keepopenminded
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:53:00
i think you'll be so kind when some one
fights against you and you'll tell him:

oooh plz kill me while i'm watching you..

or

ooh My prophet please let people fight
against you and muslims, and rape their
women, and kill their children in order to
those people who dosn't know about islam will
say:

ooh Prophet mohammad was a good man, he leave
people kill him and muslims...

Funny..

Koran:
190. And fight in the way of ALLAH against
those who fight against you, but do not
transgress. Surely, ALLAH loves not the
transgressors.
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Re: Anger
 
roversm23
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:54:10
Met my exs dad last night keepopenminded and
he didnt lay down well he did after smacked
him in mouth he got up and tried to fight
some muslim he is and a daughter who stole
ate bacon drunk and went with a gurha (me)
for two and half years
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Re: Anger
 
socrates
Date: 2008-04-27
Time: 23:57:09
Your 'prophet' was a killer too - anyway
answer the man - was it legitimate to kill a
cartoonist? Sorry - you don't answer
questions do you - just pontificate.
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Re: Anger
 
roversm23
Date: 2008-04-28
Time: 00:04:57
She shouldnt of emptied my bank account make
me choose between her and my son and broke me
heart well that bit over now she was a bit
hairy
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Re: Anger
 
keepopenminded
Date: 2008-04-28
Time: 00:18:34
roversm23, socrates..

maybe you try to mingle things..
can you set a distinction between the person
and laws?

all we know that kill is forbidden in any
country, so when some one kill another, means
that his country encourage him to kill?

so some respect the laws, some they not..

the same in islam..

there are good muslims who respect islam's
laws..
and there are muslims just by name..

a muslim who
doesn't frear Allah in secret
doens't pray..
eat pork..
drink wine
commit adultery
kill innocent people..

is not a muslim at all..
maybe he just was born in a muslim country by
decree..

everyone responsible of his deeds and islam
is innocent of personal's deeds..

so that guy who insult islam and muslims
really he is wrong..

that's why some muslims manifested for that
to show him that he is shouldn't insult and
respect others belief..

Not to kill him..

understood?..
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Re: Anger
 
roversm23
Date: 2008-04-28
Time: 00:24:22
Its there word for white trash its just like
us using the word pa.i
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Re: Anger
 
freddyfridgemagnet
Date: 2008-04-28
Time: 00:26:08
Don’t touch pork or wine……..spiffs ok
then??
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Re: Anger
 
keepopenminded
Date: 2008-04-28
Time: 00:28:16
socrates..
maybe you should read this to understand
islam:

Koran:
32. On account of this, WE prescribed for the
Children of Israel that whosoever killed a
person - unless it be for killing a person or
for creating disorder in the land - it shall
be as if he killed all mankind; and whoso
saved a life, it shall be as if he had saved
the life of all mankind. And our Messengers
came to them with clear Signs, Yet even after
that, many of them commit excesses in the
land.
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Re: Anger
 
keepopenminded
Date: 2008-04-28
Time: 00:32:57
sorry freddyfridgemagnet, i meant not to
touch something you like, just wanted to
explain some rules in islam to socrates as he
asked me for that..

how are you freddyfridgemagnet, really i miss
your wonderful posts..

go ahead freddyfridgemagnet..

haven't you talk to anna?
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Re: Anger
 
mightywurlitzer
Date: 2008-05-01
Time: 19:20:17
FROM THE BIBLE Proverbs 14:29
"He who is slow to anger has great
understanding, But he who is quick-tempered
exalts folly."
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Re: Anger
 
mightywurlitzer
Date: 2008-05-01
Time: 19:23:20
FROM THE NEW TESTAMENT
Ephesians 4:31

"Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and
clamor and slander be put away from you,
along with all malice.
And be kind to one another, tender-hearted,
forgiving each other, just as God in Christ
also has forgiven you."

REALLY GOOD ADVICE for everybody

Ephesians 4:26
"BE ANGRY, AND yet DO NOT SIN; do not let the
sun go down on your anger
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Re: Anger
 
mightywurlitzer
Date: 2008-05-01
Time: 19:25:06
IT JUST SHOW WITH SUCH GOOD ADVICE IN THE
PUBLIC DOMAIN so to speak
THE WORLD NEVER NEEDED THE QUR'AN.
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