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Why are lads so harsh? |
scouse_princess1982
Date:
2008-03-21
Time: 22:39:41
Edited by:chris20 |
Hey guys just to see what everyones opinion
is on this or weather its only me that finds
this totally out of order. I was dating a guy
and my nan got sick and naturally i got upset
and turned to him for support. The next thing
he dumps me cos he "cudn't handle it" cos i
got upset. What the [censored] is wrong with
ppl? I will gladly name and shame this lad to
anyone who feels the need to go n give him a
piece of their mind lol |
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Re: Why are lads so harsh? |
scouse_princess1982
Date:
2008-03-21
Time: 22:46:25
Edited by:chris20 |
no he aint off here think he [censored] shud
be tho he's obviously got problems like the
rest of em, you men shud all be ashamed of
yaselves, its men like this [censored] that
give the rest of you a bad name! |
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Re: Why are lads so harsh? |
scouse_princess1982
Date:
2008-03-21
Time: 22:54:33
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well i've already got part of me revenge done
because i was trying on dresses in monsoon
and the lady who was in the fitting room was
actually furious and thought i was messing
with her and she said she knew ppl where he
works and was gonna tell em to have words
hehe i kinda like the way my misfortunes
cause a bit of controversy hehehe love it! |
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Re: Why are lads so harsh? |
martyn_
Date:
2008-03-22
Time: 13:03:58
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I think women are much harsher than men. With
their emtional states women can be really
vicious. Men are usually repsectful toward
each other whereas women can be really
[censored]y and green-eyed with each other. |
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Re: Why are lads so harsh? |
cathyb_
Status: Moderator
Date:
2008-04-19
Time: 10:26:31
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He sounds immature and incapable of providing
you with emotional support
He also sounds very selfish and uncaring you
are better off without him
I know you must feel hurt and let down but in
a way its better you found out what sort of
person he is sooner rather than later
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Re: Why are lads so harsh? |
tinzel501
Date:
2008-04-19
Time: 11:06:22
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woooooo steady on Jolly we are not all
devious control freaks hunny,id like to meet
someone who dosent want to "control" my
home,my kids,my finances,the way i dress,my
friends,where i go well basically my
life....i treat ppl how i would like to be
treated but it never works that way.I love
flowers and smiles and "how was your day my
love?" but even the nice ones become a
disappointment,maybe because i give to
much..... |
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Re: Why are lads so harsh? |
lil_red_gem
Date:
2008-04-19
Time: 11:13:33
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Yeah, i was just going to mention, there are
probably just as many women out there that
are like that as there are men; just as there
are as many nice women out there as there are
nice men.
It's all about expectations, perceptions and
acceptance.
Friends can give as much love as partners
can...sometimes more - i have recently found
that out. |
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Re: Why are lads so harsh? |
tinzel501
Date:
2008-04-19
Time: 11:19:50
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i agree lil-red-gem my friends are all there
for me as ive just recently found out.I
havent tared all men with the same brush i
still have faith that there are good men out
there. |
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Re: Why are lads so harsh? |
lil_red_gem
Date:
2008-04-19
Time: 11:28:28
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Cool.
Giving more than you ever ask for is a
problem that most of us have.
And it can make us quite resentful.
I've learned to love myself recently, so it
no longer matters to me what anyone else does
- as long as they don't stop me from doing
what i want, others can just get on with it.
I've learned some valuable things over the
past year, from some really great, special
people - and up until last year, they were
all total strangers to me.
Amazing really how some really bad crap cxan
bring some really good things into your life.
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Re: Why are lads so harsh? |
tinzel501
Date:
2008-04-19
Time: 11:36:55
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Since letting go of all the negative ppl i
thought were "friends"it has cleared the way
for all the true friends that have been there
all that time,but didnt see them,to come into
my life and now i am begining to do the same
and i am feeling the difference all
ready....to all those special ppl i love yer
loads....:-) |
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Re: Why are lads so harsh? |
lil_red_gem
Date:
2008-04-19
Time: 11:53:10
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Hi GK
Hmmmm - tempting, but no!
Really don't want a fight right now - but ask
me later when i have denied my body of
nicotine for a good few hours lol |
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Re: Why are lads so harsh? |
mr_valentino
Date:
2008-04-20
Time: 00:43:43
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Hey if you really think that about guys, I
don't know what that makes me because i'm
none of them they only thing I can be is
grumpy at times otherwise i'm generally a
nice person don't be put off by my profile
picture lol. |
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Re: Why are lads so harsh? |
scouse_princess1982
Date:
2008-05-27
Time: 09:10:29
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well i'm over that little knobhed anyways
now, i've found meself a nicer lad who
wudn't dream of treatin me like that so its
all worked out for the best in the end. Thank
you for the comments guys you're all stars
xxxxxx |
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Re: Why are lads so harsh? |
blondi999
Date:
2008-05-27
Time: 16:58:29
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Aww sorry to hear that babe!
Some guys just arent good with emotional
issues, thats no excuse for his timing of
what he did to u but if he's going to be like
that with u, then ur best off with out him
and just concentrate on yourself!
Not all guys are like that! good luck! |
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Re: Why are lads so harsh? |
runlike
Date:
2008-05-28
Time: 13:08:46
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i know i am lekki,i dont understand why
someone can be so bitter at a very young
age,i know there are good boys out there and
i am a few years younger i think. |
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Re: Why are lads so harsh? |
lil_red_gem
Date:
2008-05-28
Time: 13:11:44
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Sounds to me like it was his excuse to run
along and do as he pleases...
If he is that immature, emotionally detatched
and a commitment-phobe, i'd say that he did
you a favour by ending now, rather than
putting you through years of crap, and
stripping you of your self-worth.
You're worth more sweetie - and as long as
you think that you are, you will attract that
kind of guys who will treat you like you feel
you deserve to be treated.
Chin up chick. |
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Re: Why are lads so harsh? |
scouse_princess1982
Date:
2008-05-28
Time: 18:13:42
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lil red gem this happend about 2 months ago
and am glad he did it cos i've got a much
nicer lad in me life now so he did me a
massive favour, i'm not upset about it
anymore anyways if i ever saw him wud just
laff at him. Thanks for the nice comments
anyways guys |
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