im going to live with my dad in northern
ireland and me and my mum have seriously
fallen out over it, me and her really dont
get on but i dont wona fall out with her
because of my sisters i dont wona lose
contact with them but i know it will happen
if me and mum stop talkin i jus dont know
what to do right now
me and her have never got on and im more of a
daddys girl, i dont no why she is upset as
she said she cant wait for me to move out and
also not all girls need there mum iv always
ben on my own i have lived with her for 14
years but shes never ben a mum to me and i
had to bring up my sisters coz she was more
worried about gettin some sex.
it sounds perhaps that your mother holds a
lot of guilt and that it's easier to push you
away rather than face you. She's angry
because she doesn't really want to lose you
but cannot tell you. So easier to feel anger
than pain
I think she is angry coz to her it seems like
your Dad has won..he has you. Your mum sounds
a bit messed up. Don't let it ruin you
though. Do what you feel is right in your
heart.
your mum might feel alittle betrayed by your
choice as she will see it as she has brought
you up for the past 14 years?? it would be
nice if you could sort out your differences
before you left so a return would not be a
sour one.
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