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sidesalad
Date: 2007-10-04
Time: 17:15:50
Why is it sum of us can end a relationship,
walk away n move on but then u get the knobs
of ex's that for sum unknown reason just
wanna stir the smelly stuff n cause grief???
Is it just me that attracts these knobs????
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Re: Ex's
 
sonya87
Date: 2007-10-04
Time: 17:17:45
Just ignore who ever it is, thats what I
would do my best to do
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Re: Ex's
 
sidesalad
Date: 2007-10-04
Time: 17:19:34
yeh i know but its easier said than done aint
it
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Re: Ex's
 
sonya87
Date: 2007-10-04
Time: 17:22:12
yea it is. I like to preach coz I don't
think I could ignore it. I would probably
laugh at them and get into more sh!t.
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Re: Ex's
 
sidesalad
Date: 2007-10-04
Time: 17:32:00
oh theres a few things i'd luv to do believe
me but i wouldnt lower myself to his level
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Re: Ex's
 
sidesalad
Date: 2007-10-04
Time: 17:33:30
classie i'd say i ended it nicely yeah not
like i announced it in the paper or anythin
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Re: Ex's
 
sidesalad
Date: 2007-10-04
Time: 17:39:35
yeh plz translate bus?
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Re: Ex's
 
firestormdevil
Date: 2007-10-05
Time: 18:19:28
how many times have you told him that your
not intrested anymore? if he still aint got
the message he prob would if he saw you with
another guy, 1 dont let him get to you if you
see him around ignor him act like you didnt
see him and move on 2 keep laughing when he
sees your happy and you've moved on he will
soon get bored 3 even tho he makes it hard if
you keep playing hes game hes winning just by
talking about it hes got you right where he
wants ya end of the line just forget him gal
he aint worth it x tc
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Re: Ex's
 
sidesalad
Date: 2007-10-06
Time: 17:15:19
Thanx fire n i ave bin doin all the above
believe me but i moved on n got a life so
thats all that matters to me
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Re: Ex's
 
cham3leon
Date: 2007-10-07
Time: 11:52:57
[quote] how many times have you told him that
your
not intrested anymore? if he still aint got
the message he prob would if he saw you with
another guy, 1 dont let him get to you if
you
see him around ignor him act like you didnt
see him and move on 2 keep laughing when he
sees your happy and you've moved on he will
soon get bored 3 even tho he makes it hard
if
you keep playing hes game hes winning just
by
talking about it hes got you right where he
wants ya end of the line just forget him gal
he aint worth it x tc [/quote]

I know where ya coming from, its a bloke
thing, we get all sorts of messages and
mis-interpret them, i have to admit i was
part of that group.. probably still am but
dont want to admit it...

But anyhow if a relationship ends then
sometimes both parties still admit to things
that proobably wasnt finished or closed at
the termination of the relationship..
But that is my opinion
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Re: Ex's
 
sweet_nymp
Date: 2007-10-07
Time: 11:56:48
tell him his
brother/dad/uncle/cousin/nephew/sister was
better he might loose it a bit but he should
leave you alone, if that dosnt work then im
stumped sorry
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Re: Ex's
 
firestormdevil
Date: 2007-10-07
Time: 13:15:16
cham read above ive just said that duh lol
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Re: Ex's
 
cham3leon
Date: 2007-10-07
Time: 15:28:08
lol i didnt read it .. lol just thought i put
my quids worth in.. wait amin it is free to
put something in..
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Re: Ex's
 
firestormdevil
Date: 2007-10-08
Time: 18:35:06
andy no i haven't im still a dark brown hehe.
and does cham want a cracker? lol
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Re: Ex's
 
respec32
Date: 2007-10-08
Time: 23:45:59
have you considered getting him taken out?




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Re: Ex's
 
sweet_nymp
Date: 2007-10-09
Time: 13:11:59
i would do it for a pack of hula hoops and a
dairy milk!!
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Re: Ex's
 
sidesalad
Date: 2007-10-10
Time: 09:28:12
mm now thats a thought but then thats just
lowerin myself to his level n that just aint
me. I gonna treat his remarks n stuff with
the comment he and them deserve n just get on
with my life like i have bin.

Beer n fire i think ur undersellin
urselves!!! Only one pack o hula hoops n one
bar o dairy milk, Ideal ur hired LOL
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Re: Ex's
 
vix07
Date: 2007-10-10
Time: 17:20:04
its tk 21 years for my ex to [censored] off
but he still hangining around like a bad
smell so i got a court order out if not hire
a hit man
lol
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Re: Ex's
 
cham3leon
Date: 2007-10-15
Time: 19:14:05
good idea, but i would take the first option
of the court order, if that doesnt work,
maybe a stern talking to...
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Re: Ex's
 
mychemicaltoilet
Date: 2007-10-24
Time: 04:28:42
OR... just a thought mind... get the nads,
peel the skin off, then dip them in vinegar.
Works for me
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Re: Ex's
 
vix07
Date: 2007-12-13
Time: 21:57:37
hey all hows every one got a question how do
u get rid off a bad smell like ur ex ive been
trying for the past 2 years and he still wont
go away help me ppl
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Re: Ex's
 
lesmond
Date: 2007-12-13
Time: 23:50:29
get a big fella to have words lol
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Re: Ex's
 
vix07
Date: 2007-12-14
Time: 11:55:32
what fella lol had enough off guys thinking
they now it all i turned lez i think hahah
any way i tryed that even got my brother to
break his nee kaps
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Re: Ex's
 
lesmond
Date: 2007-12-14
Time: 22:00:33
aww vix what a waste
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Re: Ex's
 
vix07
Date: 2007-12-15
Time: 11:02:17
lol bless but he keeps cuming bk i hate him
so much
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Re: Ex's
 
vix07
Date: 2007-12-15
Time: 13:30:37
sorry thats not how it work my ex thred to
kill me and my son he tryed to kidnap him i
brought my house i work, i dont spunde off
the goviment. i pay my tax like every 1 ells
and i hate it when men think there better
then us women sorry but at the end off the
day not every 1 wanted kids i love my son but
it was to lat to get rid off him hes ere now
so i look after him and all so his dad shud
pay up
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Re: Ex's
 
lesmond
Date: 2007-12-15
Time: 15:48:11
well said vix men should take responsibility
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Re: Ex's
 
vix07
Date: 2007-12-15
Time: 17:04:56
ye but not all men have the right too see
there kids. but i tell u there are good men
out there who tk on othere ppl kids there the
reall men
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Re: Ex's
 
lesmond
Date: 2007-12-15
Time: 17:08:48
vix i took on my exes kids im a good man
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Re: Ex's
 
cathyb_
Status: Moderator
Date: 2007-12-15
Time: 17:13:21

You probably need to be blunt with him

Cruel to be kind sort of thing

He sounds quite resentful of you
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Re: Ex's
 
vix07
Date: 2007-12-15
Time: 18:24:02
cat i have ive tryed everything even took him
to court still wont tk no for no thinks its
yes.
but his loss bec hes loseing out on his sons
life i guess
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Re: Ex's
 
lonelywife
Date: 2007-12-22
Time: 11:28:08
i know its easier said,but in time he will
see the errors he has made
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Re: Ex's
 
nikwalker
Date: 2007-12-29
Time: 14:28:18
when my wife told me she was seeing somebody
else i lost my kids, home and everything.
there was no pain like it. i miss my kids so
much! for me it does not matter who's kids
they are, they just need two parents too make
them whole.
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Re: Ex's
 
cathyb_
Status: Moderator
Date: 2007-12-29
Time: 14:31:33

You sound like your a good dad-
theres quite a few good men on here that have
been let down by their ex's or the
authorities

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Re: Ex's
 
cathyb_
Status: Moderator
Date: 2007-12-29
Time: 14:38:11
''does not matter who's kids
they are, they just need two parents too make
them whole''

I would agree but not if the father is
violent or disordered ,then the child is
better off without him

I know a man who assaulted his partner while
she was holding their six month old baby-took
them hostage and then assaulted three
policemen who came to rescue her

Social Services still granted him access-the
mother had to move hundreds of miles away in
secret to get him away from them

I dont blame women like that-they are the
ones let down by social services in those
situations



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Re: Ex's
 
vix07
Date: 2007-12-29
Time: 23:24:18
i agree there are a few good dads out there
but when it cums to ur kids ur cant tkt he
risk after my ex asulted me when i had my son
in my arms i was told by social servies i
wasnt allowed to see any 1 ells or have my
son tk off me thats all thanx to my ex bf. i
had to tk a injuctio out on him im making him
pay now he droped my son and blamed me. so
now hes only allowed to write to my son, till
hes 13 then its in a contaces center. but i
agree a child need to parents.
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Re: Ex's
 
vix07
Date: 2007-12-31
Time: 15:16:56
but i meet this really nice guy helped with
my son but never worked out were good m8s tho
but still got faith lol. any way ex ar not
worth the trouble.
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Re: Ex's
 
nottingham2008
Date: 2007-12-31
Time: 15:52:28
i wish all the best for 2008 for my ex
i wish she gets run over by a car
or bus
or tram
i wish she gets shot in a horrid farming
accident (as she lives in the sticks)
i wish a combine harvister would accedently
mash her up
i wish theres a plauge of killer bees and
shes wearing yellow at the time and holding a
big bunch of flowers
i wish [censored]raches invade her house at
night creep up her nose and lay eggs in her
brain (plenty of room up there)

you see not all of us are spitefull i do wish
the best of the worst things for my ex

HAPPY NEW YEAR ALL xxxx (except her )
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Re: Ex's
 
vix07
Date: 2008-01-02
Time: 20:23:28
happy new year hope all goes well this year
for every one and we get what we wished for
but i downt my ex will die shame any for
thoses how are not like him happy new yera
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Re: Ex's
 
sunseadevon
Date: 2008-02-21
Time: 14:06:27
my wife & i split recently 7th jan went back
a day later said can we would try a again
sort this out weve been together for 21 yrs
she has been unhappy last year with us moving
are new house 3rd dec could not make us feel
better, went to leicester to watch argyle
play few weeks, later rang my son to see how
he got on that day,then spoke to my wife see
if she was ok she said look im sorry i dont
love you anymore she told me that 7th jan
aswell there is no 1 else involved which im
glad but we always said to each we would
never unfaithful, i dont hate her, we are
still good friends love my 2 kids to bits, im
still gettin over it it hurt so much feels
like im grieving without the death part, i
hope to meet lots of new friends now got lots
of mates half are married but move to house
to get on with own life. were not all bad
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Re: Ex's
 
cathyb_
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-02-21
Time: 14:23:43

Whenever we lose of a significant other there
are feelings of grief

In a way someone leaving us can be worse than
them dying because theres an element of free
will in desertion or rejection

Its not only a persons security that gets
shattered but also their self worth

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Re: Ex's
 
sunseadevon
Date: 2008-02-21
Time: 15:42:53
thanks cathy she tried to tell me for months
but could not tell me didnt want to hurt now
i realise how much she was hurting its all
making sense now
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Re: Ex's
 
vix07
Date: 2008-02-21
Time: 21:36:20
when i split from my ex i was heartbroken but
i new it was a right thing to do to this day
i still think about him and there gonna be
aprt off me who cares bec we have a son im
gald u still talk to her, it should be that
way i guess. but sooner or later people move
on.
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Re: Ex's
 
cathyb_
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-02-22
Time: 00:22:55

I dont care about my ex at all

I wouldnt care if he won the lottery or fell
off a cliff tbh


He treated me so badly it killed all my
feelings

Theres nothing about him I like
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Re: Ex's
 
cathyb_
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-02-22
Time: 00:30:47

Sadly he didnt come in handy for anything
Sfx

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Re: Ex's
 
cathyb_
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-02-22
Time: 00:41:35

I would have needed him to do stuff I couldnt
do myself

He was so selfish and lazy & he gave
absolutely nothing at all to the relationship
at all-it all centred around him

The most he ever did for me was make a baked
potatoe

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Re: Ex's
 
cathyb_
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-02-22
Time: 00:44:48


No in the oven
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Re: Ex's
 
cathyb_
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-02-22
Time: 01:15:25

We only ever had one thing in common
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Re: Ex's
 
vix07
Date: 2008-02-22
Time: 12:52:35
well at least he out off your life now. any
you can find sum1 who cares for you.
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Re: Ex's
 
senor_rojo
Date: 2008-02-22
Time: 17:40:58
but where do you find gift wrap for it
reiver?
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Re: Ex's
 
xblack_heartx
Date: 2008-02-22
Time: 17:46:23
Dior most of mine I still get on with but
that doesn't happen for awhile.

I refuse to that them. Gives them the upper
hand.
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Re: Ex's
 
vix07
Date: 2008-02-22
Time: 22:07:33
at the end off the day we all go through it
sum worse then others.
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Re: Ex's
 
cathyb_
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-02-22
Time: 22:27:31

I found it helpful (in order to get over
someone) to imagine them in a ridiculous
situation-
You need to base it on a foible or flaw that
your ex actually has
[but for goodness sake make sure its not
something that would evoke pity or the
feeling you ought to rescue them]

Imagine them doing something silly

My ex used to kid himself that he was a
seducer of beautiful women pmsl one of them
had a tash-I used to imagine him with her it
put me right off another one was really ugly
(even her photo frightened me)

It made him seem like a deluded fool and it
helped me stop the unhelpful thoughts-that I
still loved him lmao


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Re: Ex's
 
the_gate_keeper
Date: 2008-02-22
Time: 22:31:13
if you met me cathy.....


there would be no more EX's to worry
about.....


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Re: Ex's
 
vix07
Date: 2008-02-25
Time: 17:42:28
well now bec off my ex i don trust any guys
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Re: Ex's
 
cathyb_
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-02-25
Time: 19:59:35

lol Gatekeepeer







Dont tar them all with the same brush tho
There are some really nice men out there

They arent all deadbeats and lowlife

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Re: Ex's
 
sidesalad
Date: 2008-03-03
Time: 13:40:59
omg i cant believe this thread is still goin

well just to add my bit again, i got 2 ex's
in my life that r givin me nothin but grief n
one o them is from 2 years ago now so it's
like get the hell outta my life (i even moved
but he dont know where i am thank fk) the
other just thinks he can stick his nose in n
stir the smelly stuff for me n my new fella
well as far as i'm concerned they can all go
jump but makes u wonder y u c so many lonely
old men around dont it!!!!!!!
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Re: Ex's
 
vix07
Date: 2008-04-21
Time: 10:12:28
hey all good still going well ex im free off
mine at last....
im so happie now its so weired but worth the
pain and the hassel
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